by Aeslohsnewhuman
For context: I (28f) have my own house (3bed, 1.5 bath), that I purchased on my own with no assistance from family, friends, etc. I use one bedroom as my bedroom and another is set up as my home office since I WFH full time.
A couple of years ago, my mother (51f) and grandmother (70f) moved into my house after facing eviction with the plan being that they would save up whatever money they can and leave once they had saved up enough (with the estimate being 9mo-1yr). A few months after moving in, they moved in my aunt (50f), which was not planned, or even discussed, but I care about her and would rather be a little cramped and uncomfortable than see her (or them) be homeless.
Now, they have not saved a cent and do not seem to be working on saving. They have been giving me some money ($450/mo) to help with the difference in utilities and household items that I pay for, however, they are often asking me to pick up things for them, take them places, borrow my car, and sometimes for money. I have also became responsible for the vast majority of all laundry, cleaning and cooking, just to maintain the home. I also buy the bulk of groceries and household supplies (toilet paper, cleaning supplies, etc.). I want to sit down and have the conversation that it is time for them to start looking for other accommodations as I truly do not want them living here anymore. I am tired of sharing my space, and feeling like I'm sharing my wallet. WIBTA for telling them I do not want them living here anymore and to look for another place to live?
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