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My dad is getting remarried. I(F15) assumed I'd be a bridesmaid or junior bridesmaid but apparently my new Stepmom doesn't want any kids in her wedding party.

Dad said I can be his bestwoman but I don't want to match clothes with men. I wanted to wear bridesmaid clothes.

I told my dad who told his gf who still refused to make me a bridesmaid.

Dad told me to drop it and it's just a "Stupid party" and I should just let it go and get over the fact that I can't be in her wedding party.

I told him since it's just a stupid party I won't attend. It's on my mom's custody time so I don't have to go anyway

He thinks I'm an asshole for not supporting him.